What to Do About My Boyfriends Sister Who Has No Care in the World?

Question by redgirl13: what to do about my boyfriends sister who has no care in the world?
ok here’s the thing i live with my 2 sons and my sons dad who is living with his parents….obviously now his sister (the only girl in the family) is living there too with her child. She is a crystal meth abuser. she would take off for days sometimes weeks with me taking care of her son sometimes not even calling to check on her son.now my boyfriends parents all they do is talk to her telling her to stop doing drugs and so on, but when she goes out they give her money and when she wants something bought they buy it. and when she finally is home all she does is talk on the phone to different numbers of guys and sleep all day and only come out of her room to eat. for the past couple of years i’ve been hearing that she has been blaming me for everything that she is currently going through and blaming me for the stupidest reasons.when i confronted her about everything she did not deny but all she said was “it’s nothing forget about it” i also notice sometimes the way she looks at with hate
she doesn’t do her drug in this house hold where we are at…but she does the binge…..so she like to disappear for acouple of days sometimes weeks and she stays over at different mens houses and then she comes home to “recover” and then she’ll leave again.
that’s what we are trying to do….save our money and get our own place so we can get her out of our lives…..and honestly it may sound bad and all but my boyfriends parents would never ever kick her out and i don’t know why, i guess they’re in denial or something, but all i know is i am stuck here to take care of her child and somehow they make me feel guilty when i refuse to take care of him.

Best answer:

Answer by McyD
Ummm….why do you have your two sons in this environment? If the sister wants to kill herself doing drugs that is her business. But your responsibility is to raise your kids in a safe environment and not have them exposed to things such as this.

Good luck!

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