My Fella Has a Child With His Ex but Constantly Relies on Her for Support Especially if We Have an Argument?

Question by sarah: my fella has a child with his ex but constantly relies on her for support especially if we have an argument?
hi there need some advice.im feeling desperate and dont know how to cope with the close relationship my fella has with his ex?they have a child together but he runs to her for a place to stay if we’ve argued(usually because of them),financial support,borrowing etc.he is pretty slack to his teenage daughter and seems to be able to come and go as he pleases.his ex hasnt had a proper boyfriend since they split 10yrs ago.ive met and spoken to her several times.the worst she done was protecting him for 3days whilst he hid at her house after i found hed been on drugs.she swore blind he wasnt there.when i confronted her, after he admitted he was there,she said he told her not to tell me as he was going to admit himself to rehab.ive been with him for 3years.when i first met him he neglected to tell me that hed booked a holiday for all 3 of them.he swore blind to stop relying on her.hes since borrowed more money and bought stuff from her into the house.ive cried and begged him stop?

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Answer by SAM1981
This guy is a loser. Dump him. My guess is he won’t even care if you dump him – it’s one more reason to hang with his ex.

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