I Want a Male Perspective Only. Why Does My Man Do This to Me? Please Help?
Question by Hotsecuritygirl: I want a Male perspective only. Why does my man do this to me? Please help?
my boyfriend for a over a year now off and on. I am 24 and he is 37. He use to live with his brother for over a year.We only use to see each other like twice a week if even that.Well he recently got his &hit together. He got a job a car and a two bedroom apartment with his two sons. Well now i spend the night there like three of four times a week. Well i barley see him when i am there. He gets up goes to work for like 8hours i clean his house and I cook dinner for him and the kids while hes gone. He comes home eats dinner takes a shower and leaves. All he tells me is all be back gotta go take care of Business. He’s usually gone from 2-4hrs. If i ask him anything about it he tells me dont question him . That he’s grown *** man.So usually when he gets back hes ready for bed so I rub his back and have we have sex and then he goes to bed . And he does it on the weekend too this past sunday we woke up and i made him breakfast and helped him clean the house. And i wasn’t feeling good and i was suppose to go to my lil b-day but i didn’t want too. So i told him look just stay home with me i didnt feel like going out lets go grocery shopping and watch movie. And he said i should go cuz he wont be home.. So him and his son dropped me off. When i was coming back. He told to wait for him at his moms cuz he wasn’t home yet and his son was waiting for him at his moms too he had dropped him off there.Me and his son waited for him for over an hour.And yesterday when he got from work he took a shower and left while i was making dinner and came home and said wheres my plate? And he sat down on the couch to watch tv and i tired to cuddle him and he said he didn’t feel like it to leave him alone. And when he went in the room i followed him to go spend time with him and he told go watch tv in the living room he wants his space. Am like space? i haven’t seen him all day and i dont even live there. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO? When i confront him he tell i am irritating him. He doenst have any money so i dont expect him to take me out but i just want to watch tv with him and talk and have dinner at the table. Any ladies been through this? Is he doing cuz he doesn’t love me? My feeling really get hurt please help me. I dont if this counts for anything but he use to be addicted to crystal meth can this have something to do with it?I love the man with all my heart. 🙁
Best answer:
Answer by Purple Drank
he’s too damn old and is gonna die way before you and in 20 years you’ll be married to a old man, do you really want that?
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