What Else Could Possibly Go Wrong in My Life? Even When I Am Doing the Right Things I Still Have Bad Luck!?
Question by David: What else could possibly go wrong in my life? Even when I am doing the right things I still have bad luck!?
Why does bad luck enjoy me so much? Where does it live so I can go kick it’s butt?
What bad luck thing could possibly happen next to me in my life? Damn!
I got arrested and charged with felonies 16 years ago. Drug related. I spent time in jail, treatment center & 5 years probation because of my charges. During the start of all that I finally met the right woman and she got pregnant with my son, who I will just call B here. When he was born & the doctor handed him to me I then understood what true love was! I immediately became a much more mature adult who stopped partying and stayed away from drugs and trouble since then. He probably saved my life by just being born. His mother started getting in trouble though and eventually left us to start partying with new friends. Damn, wrong woman! I filed for full custody and got it. We have not seen or heard from her since then (14 years now). When he was a year old I really did meet my soulmate & we got married. She is his real mother..not some girl who had a kid and split. Anyways, he calls her mom & we are still married today, 13 years now. About a year ago, my son, “B” started high school and puberty/adolescence at the same time. He has always been a good kid who loves video games and drawing. Over the past year he changed completely and started hanging out with the wrong crowd at school. I started getting calls from the school all the time and would have to leave work to pick him up or have a meeting. Employers would put up with time off for so long and I got fired. With my felony backgroung it is impossible to find another job & with the economy. But somehow I would, just to lose it because of the same thing. 4 jobs in 6 months and have been unemployed for the past 6 months (1 year total) since his behavior. I disciplined him from small to large during this time. Also had him at counselors, psychiatrists, therapists, youth pastor in church and all other assistance. He has been baker acted to behavior clinics 4 times this year and has been failing 5 of 7 classes. He refuses to do homework and schoolwork. He will even tell me no. I am 6’6″ tall 230lbs. & a veteran of the marine corps infantry division/combat decorated(alot of reason for drugs when I got out) I can’t believe he tells me no. When he gets punished he runs away and won’t listen. Well, last week at school he got upset and set fire to a toilet paper holder in school bathroom & was caught. Nobody got hurt thank goodness andthe was little damage 25$. The police went to the school and charged him with Arson 1st degree. Which is a felony of the first degree. He has been expelled from school for 2 years and is currently in juvenile detention. Court is this Thursday. I am devestated! Have not slept in days! Unemployed! Marriage is in trouble from his behavior! I have no friends..everyone either smokes weed or drinks here in the redneck county we live in. Don’t want any of that around me or family. My son is screwed, he may have this follow him when he looks for work as an adult. I know from experience that he will only be able to get sorry jobs that only start you around 8-10 $an hour. I am so stressed and don’t know what will happen next in my life! Damn! Damn! All I have been doing since he was born is searching for happiness and makng better decisions. What the hell for? What will happen in my life next? I have many more things that have happened with bad things but was during my military service. I will not mention them now. I gotta go, bad luck is waiting for me…DAMN IT!
Best answer:
Answer by Wife and a Mother
with prayers everything will be okay….things happens for reasons…and you just have to be strong and never lose hope and faith…
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