My Husband Is Lying to His Therapist and Support Group About His Sex/drug Addictions. What Can I Do?

I am beyond trying to save the marriage, but am concerned about his role as father to our young child. He has done inappropriate sexual things in front of our son. I’ve already sent him to rehab, and he lied there, too, conning the staff and other patients. Since he was self reporting, there was no accountability.

I know I have the legal grounds/evidence to keep him from our child, and he has in fact blown off all visits over the last two weeks, but I would much rather they have a healthy relationship. Am I dreaming?
I have a good attorney, we have left the home and he has supervised visitation, which he blows off… Sucks for my son, but life is getting a little easier everyday.

We are both (my son and I) in therapy, and I am attending COSA & CODA meetings, but it is so hard to just watch my husband self distruct this way. And any attempt on my part is seen as a brutal attack on his ‘character’.

It is just a sad, sad situation. I pray for him everyday.

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