What Does It Take for Someone to Realize They’re an Alcoholic?

Question by QT in SoCal: What does it take for someone to realize they’re an alcoholic?
I want to hear from folks who are or have been diagnosed with alcoholism and what it took to get them to that point and to realize they need help.

I have a close friend who I believe is an alcoholic, but doesn’t see it. Need some insight.

Thanks in advance for sharing your personal story.

Best answer:

Answer by Indiana Frenchman
it generally depends on the person though usually some significant “life event” can turn the tide … for me it was the fear of losing my son to my then wife … yes we ultimately divorced even though I got treatment as the damage was done but I am a better person for it …

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