Q&A: Who Does My Mom Care for More Me or My Sister and Why if Any1.?

Question by mason p: Who does my mom care for more me or my sister and why if any1.?
Every night i go up to my room work myself into a rage and start yelling out obscene gestures aimed torwards my older sister.”She is an alcholic,sex addict and drug addict.”She doesnt understand is I have aspergers syndrome and that causes me to do that since I dont agree with her way of life.I usually end up telling her she is not my sis beacause if she was she would be a conservative minded girls just like i am a conservative man.She was raised to always get what she wants and I wasnt but yet ppl think higher of her and the know bout my issues.
I have been seeking help since age 13 but my counselor said that I will only get worse as I get older andshe even told my family that.
So that inspires her to call me names that degrade those with mental issues like psycho.But she dosent understand it is not my fault I was born with it.
she is a grade A ***** in my book.
One of my symptoms is lack of empathy and understanding.
My mom is a ***** for siding with her.
I told her I am 18 and can care for myself but I guess she dont give a **** or even care about what i would think

Funny thing is I launch those gestures at my sister

Best answer:

Answer by Nikki G
I apologize that you have to even go through somethin like that. If your mother truley was concerned about both of you then she would be able to understand your mental state of mind and should know that it is not your fault, but it seems like everyone is holding it against you anyway. Your sister being an alcoholic, drug and sex addict, obviously has some mental issues herself and maybe your mother is just trying to get her on the streight and arrow because she knows that there is nothing that they can do for you except but to understand and work with you. I am a mother of three and I dont like to treat any of my children different from the ohter. Im sure your mother cares for you both but probably doesnt know how to deal with two children who both have mental issues. I know how mental issues can be hard to deal with, I grew up with an older brother with genetic schitzophrenia and he had a severe case. He used to beat me up all the time and he is 11 years older than me! it was my other brother that saved me all of the time not my mom. She treated me like an outcast because I had ADHD supposadly and all she wanted to do was medicate everyone. Some people just dont know how to deal with these types of issues. Good luck

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