Q&A: Is This “Sexual Abuse?”?

Question by lindsay: Is this “sexual abuse?”?
I am in college and last weekend I got wayyyyy too drunk and an incident happened.i dont remember anything but apparently me and my “date” for the night were making out intensely and hooking up in front of a lot of people. i would never do this sober. also, an ambulance was called on me and before it was called people have said they saw this guy on me kissing me still and touching me and when he moved away i fell over. i was obviously trashed. i know he was reallyyy drunk too. now he has charges pressed against him for sexual abuse. i feel so weird about the situation, sooo embaressed and its my fault for getting so wasted. is this really sexual abuse? if i never said no? i had noooo idea this happened until i was told about it. im humiliated and dont know what to think.

Best answer:

Answer by D-Marie
yes it is abuse. I agree you should never get so drunk, I know that when you are passed out or unable to say no then it is some one taking advantage of a situation and abusing the person. Never get physical in sexual manner with some one who can not verbalize, is not awake, or who passed out gay straight or other wise it is not acceptable

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