Q&A: Child “Sex Abuse”?

Question by ally’smom: child “sex abuse”?
I ask this in marriage in divorce. I’ll ask here to. My dauther is 10. Her father passed away she was 5. She had a mental breakdown. She is bi-polar ADHD. She was is still in mental health treatment. I have been re married 3 years i was a 19 month old with my hubby. My daughter disclosed to a friend he was touching her and did oral sex on her. IT WAS SENT TO CHILDRENS SERVICES. She had a taped interview with a abuse expert. Me and my mom and her talk to a police detective. My hubby was kicked out of the home during the investagation. Now the case is closed i was told there was NO + evidence to go on. I was also told i may never know “the CPS worker told me that”. My daughter has been shaken by the marriage and the baby and the loss of her Dad. I WANT THE TRUTH or advice on how i can KNOW. my hubby is a respected man worked at a elementry school 9 years no record at all. YES I STILL THINK IT’S POSSIBLE it could be true. I also have his son i need to not make fast choices. I’m lost.
I don’t fully belive him or her. I don’t want to split my son from a bad that could be innocent. I don’t won’t my daughter with a abuser. I don’t know what happend and the professionals DON’T HAVE THE ANSWER either. Everday it breaks my heart.
I only get quick judements from family. My family and his tend to think it’s untrue. In my heart i can’t rest till I KNOW. This is the most stressful situation i’ve even been in. I don’t like comments that are degrauding to me. I am trying i’m hoping to do the best thats hard when you don’t know the best is.

Best answer:

Answer by Shannon J
I’ve been through this…kids don’t lie about this. It probably happened if she said it did and I’d keep him away from her.

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