I Need Opinions/advice. Why Does My Husband Do This?

Question by toomuchlove: I need opinions/advice. Why does my husband do this?
So I’ve only been married for about four months. Since getting married I’ve discovered my husbands obsession with porn. I’m sure he’s always looked at porn I just didn’t know because I didn’t live with him. I understand that it’s human nature to be curious and to look. I wouldn’t have a problem with him looking if he didn’t lie straight to my face about it and if it wasn’t taking away from our sex life. He’s told me many times before that if I were to look at porn he would consider leaving me. This past Friday we had a little heart to heart about and he said “You don’t have to worry about me looking at other women anymore. I know it’s wrong and I shouldn’t treat you that way” So obviously he feels guilty about it. But the next day he was right back at his habit again. He won’t have sex with me all weekend but is more than happy to sneak off and take care of himself. I have a very high sex drive… sometimes I think higher than his. I don’t understand what I’m not doing right here. I would try to watch it with him but we’ve discussed that before and he wouldn’t have it saying that he doesn’t want me seeing other men naked. I didn’t confront him about the porn on Saturday because I’m exhausted of having the same fight every week. It’s pointless. I’ve talked to him about getting counseling (Because on Friday he said he felt like it was an addiction) but he refused saying “our problems aren’t enough to go to a counselor”

Also about two months after we were married he got on facebook and started adding all these girls he went to highschool with (he’s nineteen he graduated in 2010) and started asking a couple of them to send him naked pictures of them. We talked about it and he said he was sorry and he wouldn’t do it again. But he continues to add girls on facebook with less than “classy” pictures of themselves and goes into the bathroom to….well you get the picture. Also just this past week he started adding girls that he has had sexual relationships with. his exs or just flings just to get on their profiles and look at their pictures. On the weekends he will get up in the morning and quitley leave the room so I won’t wake up and go look at porn. It makes me feel like I’m not enough for him or that he’s not happy with our sex life. I try to do whatever I can to make our sex life great. Before we were married our sex was fantastic and now it seems as if he’s not as into it as he used to be. He won’t talk during sex like he used to….I just don’t know what to do. I’ve talked to him a million times about this and he just shuts me out and says “there’s nothing he can say to fix it” but anything would be better than nothing. Anyone have any advice or opinions????

Thanks a lot!

And I am well aware that we are young. Maybe too young to have gotten married but we are so saying “don’t get married young” won’t really help me much here.

Best answer:

Answer by ▐▀▀▼▀▀▌ Victoria ▐▄▄▲▄▄▌
You guys are too young. Get some porn and act like you’re addicted and see how he likes its. And I think adding girls on facebook just to see naked pictures of themselves is out of line!

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