I Cant Handle Porn but My Boyfriend Doesn’t Leave It a Lone!?
Question by Steph1401: I cant handle porn but my boyfriend doesn’t leave it a lone!?
I never had a problem with porn growing up, but for the past 4/5 years things have changed.
I never used to watch it, but I never had a problem with anyone else watching it. Now I cant take it!
My boyfriend used to watch porn with his ex. I on the other hand are not willing to watch it and find it absolutely repulsive and wrong. It is degrading and completely degrades every belief I have in a pure, absolute, relationship. I am good looking and willing to try new things with him. Infact I like games, toys, dressing and playing roles. Just not porn. I have asked him to stop watching it and should he still want to after a few months, rather watch it with me, but breaking me in slowly (even though I really don’t want to, I offered to try for him) Yet he doesn’t stop. He downloads and watches so much porn that he hasn’t come to bed in weeks. he passes out in front of the computer with the door locked and his pants around his ankles. Why is he doing this? Does he not respect me enough? How do I handle this? Will he ever change or should I count my losses and just leave. I really need some advise as I feel very strong about not wanting this in my house, but he just lies to me about it every time.
Best answer:
Answer by xtinachick01
Put parental controls on his computer and tell him to get help. He’s got a porn addiction.
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