How Can I Be in My Sisters Life, and Stay Away From Her “BF”?

Question by slip.: how can i be in my sisters life, and stay away from her “BF”?
long story but my sister moved out, found this guy and moved in with him, she got pregnant by him…

last time she was down here with us, she was going to stay with us for 2 days (before things got bad) and ended up staying with us (me (the brother) and my parents) for a week and making him go back home because she wanted to get away from him for a while… she told us he drinks way to much, he snorts crushed pills, he “used” to do meth etc etc…they live in a $ 100 a week mobil home and somehow he got $ 900 behind! he is renting a big TV but well not take her to the baby doc…anyway we go to take her back to him (she wanted to go back…) and he was being cocky and rude so i grabbed her bag of shoes and threw them at him.
i made it clear i don’t like him, and he dosent like us, because we were telling her she can do better (offered to let her move back in, get a job when the baby was a year old etc etc) but she turned it down and went back with him because he’s the “baby daddy”…any way…after almost a year of me never hearing from her i wrote her a letter, she wrote back and was bringing him up every chance she got because she thinks they are going to be a family, how can i be some-what nice to her, and stay away from him, so i don’t end up getting a murder charge at age 15? 🙂

i’ve got a lot of anger towards her that i’ve got to let go of to…for never calling or wrighting a letter for almost a year.

any idea’s on how to do that?
me and her used to never fight, she used to be nice to me some times…until her friends called then i got ignored, she pulled a lot of sht with me most of my life, i still love her but some times i feel like just never talking to her again…i’ve got a lot of built up anger with her…

anyway, thats your daily episode of jerry springer! (jk)
i should also say, my sister doesn’t drive…and doesn’t get along with my parents..

Best answer:

Answer by Rob
dude….i have 5 sisters, and all but 2 sound alot like your sis…i know it sucks….but as we get older me and all my sibs have slowly grown apart…and through the rough times like your going through right now….you have to know theres not much you can do….except keep writing her letters and maybe give her a call here and there….i wouldnt even talk about the BF just try to avoid it as much as possible….its funny how life has this moments….but get use to it….life is awesome but it can suck at times….just be there for her when you can however you can….and just ignore the whole BF altogether…..but still support her

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