Am I Crazy for Visiting My Ex-Girlfriends Grave?
Question by Connor: Am I crazy for visiting my ex-girlfriends grave?
This girl, we met when I was 14 and she was 13. Now I am 21 and she is 20. We were in love and dated for 2 1/2 years. We broke up because I was being an asshole to her verbally since I was dealing with my fathers death and drug abuse and she cheated on me with my best friend. I lost my best friend and girlfriend/fianance in one moment when I found out. They managed to keep it secret for 2 months until I found out. Anyway, what happened next was at this point I was 17 and she was 16, almost 17. We didnt talk to eachother after that not one word for over a year. We both dropped out of high-school. I spiraled into the descent of worsening drug addiction and she ended up going to jail for awhile for assaulting her mother “domestic violence” technically I think. Anyway after she got out she started dating a few guys, all older, all losers who quickly used her money, her $ 19,000 inheritance she received from her deceased father after she turned 18. That money was completely gone within SIX MONTHS. So at first she started working small jobs like fast food and waitressing and then became a stripper and possibly a prostitutue. I just have done nothing since except become a worsening heroin addict to a point where I inject dope 3-5+ times per day everyday for the past few years. I come from a rich family and don’t ever need to work or commit any other crimes to get money for drugs. In fact the only illegal thing I’ve ever done is use the drugs themselves. Plenty of family money. Anyway we would often spend many times visiting both our deceased fathers graves during our 2 1/2 years relationship. And between the ages of 18-19 we would occasionally meet up about once every 6 months and hang out and visit our fathers graves together since they’re buried in the same cemetaty. She asked me out again the first time and I said no. We had sex anyway. We decided to try and be friends. We didn’t see eachother for another 6 months… we had sex. 6 months… visit the graveyard… sex… repeat every 6 months. Every time we would visit our fathers
graves we would always talk to the graves. The last time I seen her was about 3-4 months ago. Her new boyfriend had just beat the shit out of her and she apparently hurt him to using a weapon like a broken bottle or something idk. We just made out and I put ice on her bruises. She was still with the guy though. And I was engaged at the time… a HORRIBLE mistake I made being with a girl for maybe 6 months and my mind was horribly impaired by constant drug abuse. Its hard to give a shit about anything when you have a $ 200+ a day heroin habbit and when she said she was pregnant (which later turned out to be either a flat out lie, a false pregnancy, or a miscarriage), I agreed to marry her. We both cheated on eachother I cheated in her with at least two women and her with at least one man. We broke up but are on good terms and both wish eachother happy lives.
Anyway I was driving yesterday and I went to the graveyard to visit my fathers grave and first I stopped at my ex-girlfriends fathers grave and I talked to him.
My real question… am I crazy for talking to a gravestone ? I don’t REALLY think the dead people can hear me but it provides me with a measure on inner peace.
Best answer:
Answer by David
no its more considerate & put some flowers there as well when u visit it
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