I Feel Like I’m “addicted” to a Person – Not a “crush”…a Problem…?

Question by Nikki B: I feel like I’m “addicted” to a person – not a “crush”…a problem…?
About a year ago, I got really close with this guy. I had no romantic intentions with him and was in a serious relationship. The situation exploded when he grew feelings for me, and the friendship ended overnight. I was hurt, but I slowly moved on. I still miss the friendship I had. We just got along so well. I’m still with my boyfriend from that time, and I love him dearly.

I just do not understand my problem…I texted this “addiction” a few nights ago, and he says he wants to start a friendship again. I know inside that this is a terrible idea…I can feel he has a manipulative personality, but something about him draws me in. I try so hard not to contact him, and yet I did it anyways. I know that this is nothing but bad for myself, and I want it anyways…

Does anyone have an experience like this? I feel so confused and frustrated with myself.

Best answer:

Answer by Sims
I think that the mroe you contact him the mroe at risk you are for cheating on your bf cuz you like this other guy so much. If you still love your bf I think you should wait until your feelings die down for this guy.

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