20 Year Old Son Still Living at Home, No Job, No School, Possible Drug abuse…..Help !?

Published July 22, 2010

Question by billy b: 20 year old son still living at home, no job, no school, possible drug abuse…..Help !?
We have our 20 year old son whom dropped out of college in Feb/08, has not worked since then, claims he’s applying for jobs, has been staying with friends for weeks at a time, and lies to us constantly about when he will be home (always using excuses) denies using drugs, but I have my suspicions. My wife doesn’t want to believe he’s doing anything wrong as much as I try to open her eyes to what is going on. I have had it with him, my wife is very naive about the situation. I believe he’s getting high on drugs other than weed, we already have had numerous talks about drugs, responsibility, etc.
I need some advice on how to deal with the situation…..

What would you do if you were in my shoes ??

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Answer by Delfron E
Go to psycharist?

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