Why Am I So Scared of Drugs, Sex, and Alcohol?
Question by Missy: Why am I so scared of drugs, sex, and alcohol?
I’m sixteen and will turn seventeen in November. Anyway, I am so scared of these things. Is there something wrong with me? I’d say, 75% of my school does all of these things. I feel like such a loser. Even my older brothers, who are in college, always argue with me about these things. I tell them that I never want to drink alcohol. They ask me why, and I’m like “Why do I have to? I don’t know what I’m missing, so I don’t care. Do I even have to have a reason?” They are like, “You’ll change your mind once you’re twenty-one and in college.” Then, I’d say, “I don’t need alcohol to have a good time…” They’ll say, “It sure does help, though.” :\ Well, I don’t succumb to peer pressure. I’ve even had this HUGE discussion with a bunch of kids in my art class about drugs. I was the only one to advocate living above the influence. They all treated me like I was the BAD guy. Also, most teens I know, have been having sex since like the 8th grade! In casual conversation, they’ll talk about screwing somebody, like it’s no big deal… They act like it’s a normal day or something. It really makes me uncomfortable. I feel like if I even try to date a guy, he’ll expect sex from me. I choose not to have many friends, because I feel like they’ll try to push drugs and alcohol on me. Really, what’s wrong with me? Why did I turn out this way? I feel so alone.
P.S.- I’m even scared to drink coffee! I don’t know WHY! I just am. My mom constantly tries to have me try it. Another thing, I refuse to take any medicine when I have a head ache or am sick with something. I tell people, “I will only take medicine, if I have cancer, a disease, or if I’m dying.” I just think it’s stupid to take pills for something, that will go away on it’s own. :\ *sighs*
About the sex, well… I want to save myself until I’m married. I just, don’t know how I will meet my future husband when I’m abstinate. 🙁 Won’t he expect sex when we’re dating and dump me for not doing it? *sighs*
Best answer:
Answer by CC McCormack
one leads to the next, and in time, they could lead to death, pain, and suffering. take care, dont do it
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