Rant. Being Nice. How Would You Tell Your Parents to Stop Being Nice.?

Question by E.C: Rant. Being nice. How would you tell your parents to stop being nice.?
Well I’m 21. Live with my parents, And it really seems like I finally have my own room. Well ever since I can remember my parents have always been letting people stay, cousins getting kicked out/ out of luck relatives. It just like someone leaves, they call the next guy “Hey their house is open, go over there and leech” I got used to everyone but maybe about two years ago is when I really started feeling “people need to get the fuck out, why are my parents always taking care of people” Although I’m always pleasant.

Although the one who fixed the “help people problem” didn’t quite work. it was also probably the most stressful experience, my cousin became a junkie. I swear has soon has he tried meth, his whole personality changed. He would stay up in my room locked in, just trying to make time pass. Paranoid. Well eventually after numerous times “I’m fixed I’ll be better” my parents finally were fed up and kicked him out but they convinced his mom to take him back. He “fixed up again” but eventually was kicked out of his mom place, blows all his cash on drugs.

He calls my mom “I’m on the streets again” my mom says “what am I suppose to do, I’m sorry mijo but we are not going to take care of you again” Well that sunday Father day, I don’t normally go to church but thank God I did because he showed up. He never goes to church, knowing him this was a ploy to get to our location and take a shower, crash for a day and then get stuck here.

I ended up going on a whole different rant. when he was kicked out it was like 2 and a half years ago. Been getting kicked out a lot of times from his mom who is a tough lady and scary, the mom got her own problem many acts of revenge burning cars, “i’m kill you, etc

Well anyways the thing is I was in the clear but then my cousin start showing up and crashing for too long. Basically week long crash and going out with their friend on the weekends. I guess I’m ok with it the few couple of days but really after 2 days I’m fed up and with every following visit, I really feel like I’m going to blow up in there faces “GO HOME” I think my attitude basically drove away one cousin, we talk a lot when we meet but he never comes over anymore and I would say something but I really don’t want to invite anyone. One day is fine.

Fuck man, and now my out on her luck cousin all of a sudden showed up asking if she could stay
(my parents have take care of her before along with her brother, though she never kept in touch. and then its like hey can you help me, WTF and that like with every person who comes) Its like from my mom side, she was the only one who came out “normal”

Well again I’m getting used to it since I haven’t lost my room, my little bro got his room and my older brother is good too. Well I don’t know wth happen but I guess my cousin boyfriend his coming over too. WTF why can’t my parents stop being nice.

Then there my dad’s twin brother is always calling asking for cash from him and my aunt. Which is fucking ridiculous. Which causes my mom to rage at my dad sometimes cause there have been many times we are short on money, and it like I open the fridge and there is an echo. Which causes my mom to waste money on food. I really feel its she uses money so that my dad has less to send over there.

At first I thought ok they are in El Salvador (third world) if we have it bad they have it ten times worse. Well certain revelations have showed me that this guy has just become dependent on my father for spending cash, it not “food” cash. I heard something recently my uncle brought a bag of clothes and they asked “what brands”. Are you fucking kidding me.

I would really like to say something but its my parents money and another thing that is stopping me is that I too am too nice and would probably help like my parents if I was asked, although maybe not anymore since I’ve become very bitter about this helping thing this past two years. Or maybe FUCK people you can never shake away like family, Fuck family? maybe that’s a good idea.
God I”m just rambling. Since I woke up this morning overhearing how my parents are going to let my cousin’s boyfriend sleepover so he won’t be on the street. Cause of some stuff with his dad? not really sure. Well I kinda wanted to put this out there. somewhere. Only take care of strangers because they are easy to shake off.
Damit I forgot to include that. Well I’m planning on saving some money and moving out. Far away, from people. Although I feel maybe I shouldn’t because then if I’m gone I feel that would open the door for more people to take advantage of my parents. I love my parents and I think I should get slightly more establish and get the cojonoes to tell people “DON”T ASK MY PARENTS FOR HELP, **** OFF”

Best answer:

Answer by Pearl L
move out and then you wont have all that drama in your house

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