MEN: Please Tell Us Why Do You Rather Masturbate Then Have Sex With Your Partner?
Question by K.: MEN: Please tell us why do you rather masturbate then have sex with your partner?
MEN: Please tell us why u refuse to have sex w/wife…?
Gentlemen: I have run into several desperate wifes like me that their husband’s refuse to have sex with them or “give in” perhaps once a month if we push to no end just to get it out of the way?
We have tried everything and anything to spice up the intimacy, counseling, dressing up sexy, talking, asking, begging, arguing, no fighting, being submissive, special places, you name it..everything…
Why instead of having sex with us you hide to masturbate, or stare at other girls on the street? We love you to no end and your actions have destroyed our self-confidence, self-esteem, we feel undesireble, unworthy, etc.
You claim to love us to no end, that we are everything and mean the world to you…but why then you refuse to make love to us? Why do you evade us the way you do? What have we done or what are we not doing right?
These woman have been married for 18 years, BUT several of us less then 3 yrs.
Please I beg you to finally break it in and tell us what is going on, nobody will know it’s you because you are anonymous here….please…..tell us.
My husband bragged about sleeping with over 350+ women, told me about all the wonderful wild sex nights he had at times in orgies with over 20 people, or had sex with 5 girls at the same time all night long, toys, syrups, positions, etc. But we me nothing…. I have caught him masturbating in the shower instead of having sex with me… You can read my previous question if you want more detail…
He was like this since day ONE, some of the excuses were that he was coming down from being a hard core meth addict and so on. If you guys didn’t want to commit to one restaurant only…then why bother in getting married and have kids? No, I didn’t let myself down, I actually look better then when he met me. If I don’t “push” then months would go by without sex. I’ve not always push or be a bi@#$ , I’ve talk to him calmly & asking what does turn him on, told him how much I loved him, etc. Conversations have been the most pleasent to histerical. If he just never had the chemestry for me, then why be with me? Why he doesn’t leave and find the petite girl that rocks his world? I offered to sign the divorce papers and leave him with everything we have, still he says he loves me and don’t want to loose me. SEX is one of the BIGGEST KEY ELEMENTS IN MARRIAGE, it’s not about the sex or using your partner, is about making love to each other and explore the world of extasis. I am NOT boring in bed and actually can ber very active, wild, imaginative, passionate, willing to do anything to please him and make him happy to no end. The word “NO” in my mouth doesn’t exist. .
Lastly, I am so sorry to say this but…he doesn’t have a clue how to make a woman reach an orgasm. You would think that after being with so many women he will know that for a woman to reach an orgasm the man has to also estimulate their clitoris and NOT just go in and out. I can be very wild and exiting to no end, he gets PISSED off if I squeeze down there while having sex!
Best answer:
Answer by green
he dont like u enuf
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