Me and My Husband Have Been Seperated for Along Time Because of His Drug and Alcohol Addictions.?

Published July 28, 2010

Question by sunzx2: Me and my husband have been seperated for along time because of his drug and alcohol addictions.?
Like I said me and my husband have been seperated for a long time because of addictions, he is clean of drugs but still has to start drinking the minute he gets up.He wants us back together but I’m scared that if he is still drinking the way he is that he’ll go back to the drugs.He wants my help to stop drinking but I know that I can not help him,I’ve tried so many times.I love him and would never want anything bad to happen to him.I guess my question is,am I wrong for not wanting to jump back into it or should I let him back into my life and keep trying to help him. I am very confused.

Best answer:

Answer by getmymackon
Honey, you can’t help those that don’t help themselves. He knows he has a problem and he needs to fix it not you. You can support whatever he decides to do but be mindful of the fact that it won’t help your marriage, it’s already broke.

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