I Broke Up With Her, Am I Justified? I Feel Very Guilty…?
Question by James W: I broke up with her, am I justified? I feel very guilty…?
I know I asked this Question before, YOU DONT HAVE TO ANSWER, I just enjoy reading all the responses.
Dated for 2 years and half, Her social skills suck, so we were together all the time, she doesnt have any GFs, all her friends are guys who viewed her as two boobs and a vagina. She broke up with me after 11/2 years, for another guy, I moved to another state, but couldnt stand it, I begged her to come back and she agreed, we rented our own apartment, and found out that worked as a stripper when I was in the other state, also I found out that she was on hardcore drugs (Meth) and was hanging out with the trashiest people ever(Gangsters and escort girls). She also slept with several guys.
I tried to get out of this relationship so many times, but everytime she would come to me crying and tell me that she has changed, and stupid me I would believe her. 3 days ago I broke up with her, because of her repeated violent and physically and emotionally abusive behavior, that resulted in me calling the cops on her after she broke my windshield. The relationship one of the most dysfunctional relationships I have heard of in my entire life. Anyways, I refused to press charges, because I dont want her to go to jail.
Things that I dont miss:
-24/7 nagging and fighting over stupid things.
-Having to deal with 60 something years old Meth addict woman who calls herself “Mama Vicky” and my ex befriended!!!
-The constant lies and manipulation
-The constant drama
-etc, etc
She is now in jail for failing to sho in court, her phone was home and some dude texted her “I want you doggie style”!!!
Thing is, I feel very very bad and very very guilty…..I mean she is like a little baby, she cannot compete in this world, she is so naive. I feel like I abandoned her, I know that I am just justified for breaking up with her but I feel like I abandoned a piece of my heart.
Best answer:
Answer by lady amy
you can’t blame yourself for her bad mistakes..
this would have happened reguardless if you were her boyfriend or not..
stop beating yourself up over this. it’s not your fault! she needs to learn for herself
good luck
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