How Do I Help My Husband With a Masterbation Addiction?

Question by mortifiedin: How do I help my husband with a masterbation addiction?
I think my husband has a masterbation addiction. I don’t have a problem with porn or masterbation in general, but my husband has stopped being intamate with me. I know he looks at porn everyday, I don’t know how often he masterbates but my guess is at least several times a week. When we try to have sex he can not stay hard inside me and can only finishwith a hand or oral? We have talked many times over the last couple of years about how this make me feel. He will say he is sorry and that he will change, yet nothing changes. I don’t know what to do? I know my reaction to failed attempts at sex make him learry to try again. But I feel so ashamed and humilated and I can’t pretend I don’t. What does he need to do, and what can I do to help?

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Answer by nurseflowergirl
please try marriage counseling. if he wont go then you go. he may also need to see a md about a sex addiction. please remember, this is his problem, not yours, but be gentle and help guide him to where the both of you need to be in a healthy marriage.goodluck;)michele

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