Have Any of You Ever Felt Like You Were Being Punished for What Your Gf/bf Ex Did to Them?

Question by Jason: Have any of you ever felt like you were being punished for what your gf/bf ex did to them?
I feel like my ex gf wants to punish me and make my life uncomforable to get back at some of her past exes that cheated on her, were physically abusive, and one even ruined her financial credit with his gambling addiction.

Anyway, my ex gf and broke up almost 10 months ago. We dated for about a year and met work. We don’t work for the same company but it’s at the same location so we see each other on a daily basis. I didn’t feel like she cared about me or appreciated me so I decided to end the relationship. She agreed that it was for the best. So I didn’t contact her at all. Anyway, after a few weeks, she started coming around again telling me that she wanted to work things and that she missed me. Anyway, we started to date again and she even wanted us to start having sex, so we did. Well, she told me that she didn’t want to get back together and that it was a “no strings attached” type thing. She even said that she wouldn’t mind if I dated other girls. So I met this really cool girl and started to date her. Well, my ex got really mad and jealous. She then started saying nasty things about me and the new girl I was seeing. I reminded her of our “agreement” that she wanted, well she basically told me that she didn’t think that I would actually take her up on her offer. Then I got mad at her for being mad at me and playing games. I then said some things that I should not have said (which I know was wrong). Anyway, we haven’t spoken for seven months. She just completely treats me with a passive aggressive “silent treatment” even when I try to be polite and say hello. I even sent her an e-mail (I did not want to confront her at work) asking if we can be polite, cordial, and peaceful at work. Then she tried to use that against me. (Hell, hath no fury…….) It’s like she wants to punish me and hate me. I still feel that her hatred for me is unwarranted. I’m not like her exes, I didn’t cheat or abuse her. I was very good to her. I was always there by her side when she needed a friend, a lover, a helping hand, or a shoulder to cry on. I just wanted us to be able to be adults at when we had to see each other. Deep down I still care about her, but yes it hurts very much that someone that I cared for deeply could be this vindictive.

Best answer:

Answer by Lowry
She’s trouble- major attention seeker. Stick with the new girl you have

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