Dealing With My Emotionally Unstable Girlfriend?

Question by AlwaysCharging: Dealing with my emotionally unstable girlfriend?
I don’t know what I should do about my girlfriend. We have been dating for 9 months & get along absolutely amazing 99% of the time – my idea of a perfect relationship, however 1% of the time she will blow up in my face over the smallest things and not let it go no matter how reasonable and apologetic I am being. The 1% of the time is always when she is drunk. Sometimes I’ll do something that could be interpreted as aggravation, such as a communication misunderstanding. Other times she will go from kissing me to crying or being very angry at me in the blink of an eye, and back to happy again in a matter of minutes. When asked a few minutes later, her memory of the incident is very fuzzy. She has a background of a very unhealthy long term relationship with a horrible boyfriend and addiction to meth, but has been clean for 5 years. She is also on the Nuva ring, which I heard can make people unstable. I love this girl and she is my life, but its very hard for me to keep ignoring these incidents. I’ve suggested that we no longer drink, but she will not allow herself to be controled. I’m not sure what to do at this point, because I don’t know how to fix it, but I can’t go on too much longer like this. I would not normally be this patient and move on, but she is really a wonderful person almost all of the time. Is this fixable or should I cut my losses? Any advice would be appreciated, I will try anything. Thanks.

Best answer:

Answer by George T
Sometimes alcohol brings out a persons true nature. Be careful with this one.

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